LOVE IS NOT JUST A FOUR LETTER WORD!!!

WARNING!!!!  In this post, I get down to the nitty gritty about LOVE AND SEX!!!  I am going to tell it like it is, so if you DO NOT want to hear it, then please DO NOT READ ANY FURTHER!!!

LOVE IS THE MOST ABUSED WORD IN OUR LANGUAGE TODAY!!!! 

GOD NEVER MEANT FOR LOVE TO BE JUST ANOTHER 4 LETTER WORD!!!

LOVE was NEVER supposed to be a word used by a man or a woman to get you into bed, so they could use and abuse you!!!

LOVE IS NOT SEX!!!!  We are NOT supposed to tell folks that if they love us, then they will have sex with us!!!!  When we say this we are liars!!!! 

Ephesians 5:6-11 (CEV)

⁶Don't let anyone trick you with foolish talk. God punishes everyone who disobeys him and says foolish things.

⁷So don't have anything to do with anyone like that.

⁸You used to be like people living in the dark, but now you are people of the light because you belong to the Lord. So act like people of the light

⁹and make your light shine. Be good and honest and truthful,

¹⁰as you try to please the Lord.

¹¹Don't take part in doing those worthless things that are done in the dark. Instead, show how wrong they are.



Ephesians 15-17 (CEV)

¹⁵Act like people with good sense and not like fools.

¹⁶These are evil times, so make every minute count.

¹⁷Don't be stupid. Instead, find out what the Lord wants you to do.

THE TRUTH IS… 

IF WE TRULY LOVED THAT PERSON, WE WOULD BE GLAD TO WAIT FOR THEM!!!  WE WOULD WANT TO MARRY THEM AND CHERISH THEM AND LOVE THEM FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES!!!!

THAT is what God intended!!!!

SEX IS NOT LOVE!!!  SEX is what animals do to reproduce!!!

The devil created the term “having sex” and he created prostitution to pervert MAKING LOVE!!!!

The devil always does ALL he can to pervert the good things of GOD!!!

GOD LOVES US and HE VALUES US SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT!!!! 




We shouldn’t allow ourselves to be used or abused!!!  NOT FOR SEX OR FOR ANY OTHER REASON!!!!

LADIES!!!!  IF A MAN HITS YOU OR BEATS YOU OR VERBALLY ABUSES YOU, THEN HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU!!!!  IT IS TIME TO GET OUT!!!!  (This also goes for you men, too!!!  If your lady does any of these things, then listen up!!!)

THAT IS NOT LOVE!!!!

IF HE LOCKS YOU IN THE CLOSET, HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU!!!

IF HE DOESN’T TRUST YOU, HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU!!!

THAT IS NOT LOVE!!!!  LOVE DOESN’T HURT YOU!!!  LOVE DOESN’T TRY TO KILL YOU!!!  OR GET MAD AT YOU WHEN YOU ARE NICE TO SOMEONE ELSE!!! 

SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU DOESN’T SCREAM AT YOU OR THROW TEMPER TANTRUMS!!! 





A MAN THAT LOVES YOU WILL CHERISH YOU AND TREAT YOU GOOD!!!  (And vice versa!!!!)

He will NOT give you black eyes or bruises or break your bones or bloody your nose!!!!

IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A PERSON WHO ACTS LIKE THIS, GET OUT!!!!  RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN in the opposite direction!!!  GO TO THE POLICE IF YOU HAVE TO!!!!

IF A PERSON IS PLEASED TO DWELL WITH YOU, THEN THEY WILL TREAT YOU RIGHT!!!!!!  In that case you are to stay with that person!!!!  God tells us this in HIS WORD!!!

1 Corinthians 7:12-13 (KJV)

¹²But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

¹³And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

MAKING LOVE WAS CREATED BY GOD!!!!  IT IS GIVING YOURSELF TO THE ONE YOU LOVE AND THEM GIVING THEMSELVES TO YOU!!!!  IT IS A SELFLESS ACT OF LOVE!!!

MAKING LOVE IS AN ACT OF LOVE AND WORSHIP BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN WHO ARE MARRIED TO EACH OTHER!!! 




Married folks-a man married to a woman-MAKE LOVE to be intimate and close to each other, to enjoy each other and yes, also to have children!!!!

God wants us to love each other with the love of CHRIST!!!!  We are supposed to love everyone with that same love, even our spouses!!!

Ephesians 5:1-3 (KJV)

 ¹Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children;

 ²And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour.

 ³But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints;

GOD’S TELLS A MAN HOW TO LOVE AND TREAT HIS WIFE!!!


Ephesians 5:25-29 (NKJV)

²⁵ Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,

²⁶ that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word,

²⁷ that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.

²⁸ So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.

²⁹ For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.






GOD’S TELLS A WOMAN HOW TO LOVE AND TREAT HER HUSBAND!!!


Ephesians 5:22-24 (NKJV)

²² Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.

²³ For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body.

²⁴ Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.

GOD’S TELLS US HOW WE ARE SUPPOSED TO TREAT OUR SPOUSES!!! 


Ephesians 5:30-33 (NKJV)

³⁰ For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones.

³¹ “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”

³² This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church.

³³ Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.