Tuesday, March 3, 2015

FATHER, Give Me The Grace to FORGIVE Them!!!




The words of the song below by Tenth Avenue North, say it ALL!!!


It is ONLY by GOD’S GRACE that can we forgive others.


Ephesians 4:7 (KJV) …unto every one of us is given grace according to the measure of the gift of Christ.


We can forgive others because we, ourselves, have been forgiven of so much.


Ephesians 4:32 (KJV) And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.


I know that some folks do NOT believe that we can forgive and forget!!!  I have even heard folks say that they can forgive, but they’ll never forget!!!  They say that it just is NOT possible!!! 


But they are wrong!!!


WE CAN FORGIVE!!!  And furthermore, with GOD’S HELP, we can also FORGET HOW MUCH WE HAVE BEEN HURT!!!! 


ALL things are possible through CHRIST JESUS!!! 


Philippians 4:13 (KJV) I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me. 


Kenneth Copeland tells us that the word,
“which” in this verse refers to the Spirit of GOD inside us working simultaneously with The Father and The Son, in order to help us do ALL things!!! 


I CAN FORGIVE AND FORGET because I have the Spirit of GOD living within me!!! 


Ephesians 3:16 (KJV) That he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man…


I know that without GOD, I would NOT have the grace to be able to forgive others, especially those who have intentionally hurt me or done me damage!!! 


Luke 18:27 (NKJV) But He said, “The things which are impossible with men are possible with God.”


So, even when I think that I have been too hurt or too wronged to forgive, I can forgive with God’s help!


Matthew 5:44 (KJV) But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you


With HIS HELP, I can get rid of the hurt, the broken-heartedness, the bitterness and anger.  I can give it ALL to HIM! 


ONLY GOD is big enough to handle ALL these emotions and NOT be destroyed by them.


Jeremiah 32:27 (NKJV) “Behold, I am the Lord, the God of all flesh. Is there anything too hard for Me?


Because GOD LOVES ME, I AM ABLE TO LOVE OTHERS!  I AM ABLE TO FORGIVE THEM when they hurt me!!! 


Ephesians 5:1-2 (AMP)

Therefore be imitators of God [copy Him and follow His example], as well-beloved children [imitate their father].

And walk in love, [esteeming and delighting in one another] as Christ loved us and gave Himself up for us, a slain offering and sacrifice to God [for you, so that it became] a sweet fragrance.


I am able to show MERCY to others, because MY LORD has been very merciful to me!  HE died for me.  HE took my place on the cross, and because HE did, I can live!!!


Ephesians 2:4-10 King James Version (KJV)

But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us,
Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved;)
And hath raised us up together, and made us sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus:
That in the ages to come he might shew the exceeding riches of his grace in his kindness toward us through Christ Jesus.
For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
Not of works, lest any man should boast.
10 For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.


I love this song because it reminds me that I lose out when I don’t forgive others!!! 


It reminds me that because GOD forgave me, I must remember to forgive others instead of judging them.  I must look through merciful eyes at others and the things that they do!


To me, it is funny (maybe I should say strange) how when we see others doing wrong, it seems to be so much worse than when we mess up!!!  


Why is it that we want GOD to have mercy on us, but then we are so hard on others?  We need to remember to look at others through HIS EYES of compassion!!!


***Click on the title of the song below to watch the linked video!  I hope you enjoy it!



LOSING - Tenth Avenue North

I can't believe what she said...
I can't believe what he did
Oh, don't they know it's wrong?
Don't they know it's wrong?
Maybe there's something I missed?
But how could they treat me like this?
It's wearing out my heart
The way they disregard, oh...

This is love
This is hate
We all have a choice to make

Oh Father, won't You forgive them
They don't know what they've been doing

Oh Father, give me grace to forgive them
Cause I feel like the one losing

It's only the dead that can live
But still I wrestle with this
To lose the pain that's mine
Seventy times seven times

Lord, it doesn't feel right
For me to turn a blind eye
Though I guess it's not that much
When I think of what You've done.

This is love
This is hate...
We got a choice to make!

Oh Father, won't You forgive them
They don't know what they've been doin'

Oh Father, give me grace to forgive them
Cause I feel like the one losing (oh no)

Why do we think that hate's gonna change their heart
We're up in arms over wars don't need to be fought
But pride won't let us lay weapons on the ground
We build our bridges up, but just to burn them down
We think pain’s owed apologies and then it'll stop
But truth be told it doesn't matter if they're sorry or not
Freedom comes when we surrender to the sound
Of Your mercy and Your grace
Father, send Your angels down

Oh Father, won’t you forgive them
They don't know what they've been doin’

Oh Father, give me grace to forgive them
Cause I feel like the one losing
I feel like I've been losing

Oh Father give me grace to forgive them...
Cause I feel like the one losing
I feel like I've been losing

Oh Father, give me grace to forgive them
Cause I feel like the one losing

Tuesday, February 17, 2015

I AM FORGIVEN!!!!



Once again, I find myself writing about GOD’S AMAZING LOVE!!!  And I know that because of HIS AMAZING LOVE, I AM FORGIVEN!!!


I cannot imagine dying for folks that have NOT even been born yet-folks who may or may not appreciate the sacrifice that I am making for them!!! 


And yet that is exactly what OUR LORD and SAVIOR did!!!     


As I was writing about forgiveness the other day, I kept hearing the words to You Are My King (Amazing Love) by the Newsboys.  It is a wonderful song with words that are definitely GOD-INSPIRED!!! 


This song is one of my alarm tones.  If you have an Android Phone or a Blackberry, or perhaps even an I-Phone then you know exactly what I am talking about.


And if you don’t, then please let me explain. 


As most of you know, we live in the ever popular age of battery-powered gadgets.  Most people cannot live without their tablets, or laptops, but most especially their phones.   


Folks keep track of their lives on their phones.  They use their calendar to schedule appointments, and to remind them of upcoming events.  Their phones have notepads of all sorts, where they write down important things.  They put their friends’ names in their contacts list.  And most importantly, they set their phone alarm (or alarms) to wake them up and help them be on time.


And in this fast-paced electronic age, I am no exception.  I have long since used my alarm to alert me of the time and keep me on track. 


Most people’s phones will play songs and so you often hear of folks downloading music to their phones.  This allows folks to use specially selected songs as their alarm tones.  And my phone is no different.  One of the songs that I have downloaded and selected to be an alarm tone is You Are My King (Amazing Love) by the Newsboys.   


You might ask, Why? 


It is simple.  I love this song because of the words!!!  They pierce my heart and soul because they are straight from GOD!!! 


Every time I hear the words of this song, I am reminded that I AM FORGIVEN!!! 


You see, I know that I do NOT deserve to be forgiven, but I know that I AM!!!  I know that GOD LOVED ME SO MUCH, that HE SENT HIS ONE AND ONLY SON TO DIE ON THE CROSS FOR ME!!!   


I AM FORGIVEN BECAUSE CHRIST CHOSE TO DIE TO SAVE ME FROM MY SINS!!!


AND SO ARE YOU!!!


Even though you do NOT deserve it, YOU ARE FORGIVEN, BECAUSE CHRIST CHOSE TO DIE ON THE CROSS FOR YOU!!! 


1 John 1:9 (NKJV) If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.


GOD SENT HIS SON TO DIE FOR YOU ON THAT OLD RUGGED CROSS!!!


John 3:16 (NCV) God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son so that whoever believes in him may not be lost, but have eternal life.


Is there anyone who deserves to be forgiven???  NOPE!!!! 


BUT HE LOVES US ANYWAY!!! 


HE CHOSE TO DIE FOR US, so that we could have eternal life!!!


This song reminds me of that!!! 


As I hear the words, I am reminded over and over again that I AM FORGIVEN!!!  And I like that!!!


What wonderful words to hear as you wake up, “I'M FORGIVEN!!!” 


Here are the words to this beautiful song!!!  The title of this post is linked to a video of this song.  Just click and enjoy!!!  


You Are My King (Amazing Love) – Newsboys


I'm forgiven because You were forsaken
I'm accepted, You were condemned
I'm alive and well, Your Spirit is within me
Because You died and rose again

I'm forgiven because You were forsaken
I'm accepted, You were condemned
I'm alive and well, Your Spirit is within me
Because You died and rose again

Amazing love, how can it be
That You, my King, should die for me?
Amazing love, I know it's true
It's my joy to honor You
In all I do, To honor You

I'm forgiven because You were forsaken
I'm accepted, You were condemned
I'm alive and well, Your Spirit is within me
Because You died and rose again

Amazing love, how can it be
That You, my King, should die for me?
Amazing love, I know it's true
It's my joy to honor You
In all I do, To honor You
In all I do, To honor You

You are my King
You are my King
Jesus, You are my King
You are my King

Amazing love, how can it be
That You, my King, should die for me?
Amazing love, I know it's true
It's my joy to honor You

Amazing love, how can it be
That You, my King, should die for me?
Amazing love, I know it's true
It's my joy to honor You
In all I do, To honor You

In all I do, To honor You,
In all I do, To honor You,
In all I do, Let me honor You.

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Have You Forgiven That Person???




You know the one I mean.


Hmmm…  You don’t know? 


Well, here is how you find out.


How do you feel when you think about that person?  What about when someone else talks about them? 


Do you get angry all over again?  Do you want to tell everyone how much they hurt you?  And just what they did to you?   


If so, that means that you have NOT forgiven them!!! 


And you know what? 


You have to FORGIVE THEM!!! 



Ephesians 4:32 (NCV) Be kind and loving to each other, and forgive each other just as God forgave you in Christ.




IT ISN’T FOR THEM; IT’S FOR YOU!!!


FORGIVENESS DOESN’T HELP THEM OUT!!!  IT HELPS YOU OUT!!!  IT SETS YOU FREE!!!!! 


I heard the best analogy about UNFORGIVENESS!!!  I was listening to John Hagee preach and he used this analogy to explain unforgiveness. 


When you have anger and unforgiveness in your heart, it is like being locked in a jail cell and giving that person the key!!!


When you forgive that person, you are taking back the key and unlocking the door!!!  By forgiving others, you are setting yourself FREE!!!


We can forgive others because JESUS FIRST FORGAVE US!!!


I know, I know.  You don’t know if you can forgive that person.  NOT after what they did! 


You need GOD’S HELP TO FORGIVE OTHERS!!!  We ALL do!!!



And you know what?  If we ask HIM to help us forgive others, HE WILL!!! 

You have to remember that FORGIVENESS IS A CHOICE!!!  IT IS A CHOICE THAT YOU MAKE!!!  You have to CHOOSE TO FORGIVE!!! 


Colossians 3:12-13 (NCV)
12 God has chosen you and made you his holy people. He loves you. So you should always clothe yourselves with mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. 13 Bear with each other, and forgive each other. If someone does wrong to you, forgive that person because the Lord forgave you.


Just remember.  First, you decide to forgive, and then your feelings will follow!!! 


I have to warn you!!!  It doesn’t end with just deciding to forgive someone. 


You have to make sure that you KEEP ON FORGIVING THEM EVERY DAY!!!


WHY?  What do I mean? 


Well, sometimes, even when you have truly forgiven a person, you see them (maybe even years later) and all of those old feelings of hurt and anger will try to rise up inside of you.  All of a sudden, you remember things that you haven’t thought of in years.

 
When those old feelings try to rise up, you have to tell yourself, that you have forgiven that person and that you are NOT going to be angry or upset.   


If you listen to the devil, he will tell you that you did NOT truly forgive that person!!!  But he is a liar and the truth is NOT in him!!!  John 8:44


That old liar will do ALL that he can to stir up feelings of anger and hatred in you.  He wants to keep you locked up in that jail cell!!! 


You have to learn to tell him to SHUT UP, because he will try to dredge up old feelings and past hurts. 


You have to learn to say, NO, NO, devil!!!  I HAVE FORGIVEN THAT PERSON!!!  


Do you know that Jesus forgave everyone of us, even those who crucified HIM?

Luke 23:32-34 (NKJV)

32 There were also two others, criminals, led with Him to be put to death.

33 And when they had come to the place called Calvary, there they crucified Him, and the criminals, one on the right hand and the other on the left.
34 Then Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.”


If JESUS can forgive the people who tortured, and crucified HIM, then surely we can FORGIVE others!!!